“You access flow by being determined to succeed. Not by being willing to suffer.” — Judy Wilkins Smith


Systemic Facilitating and Coaching

In your own work as a facilitator, Breaking Big can show you how to identify, break and resolve patterns that don’t serve and consciously create patterns for success. Workshops and trainings will teach you the principles that govern all living systems. You’ll learn to examine systemic sentences and their effects on success or failure, and learn to facilitate through dimensional mapping, accessing multi-generations in organizations, roles and individuals.

Continuing Education Units (CEU) and Continuing Coach Education (CCE)

Society for Human Resource Management International Coach Federation (ICF) University of Texas at Austin Texas Department of State Health Services

International Accreditation

Institute for the Integration of System Dynamics in conjunction with The Hellinger Institute of The Netherlands

Certificate of Completion and Attendance (Family Dynamics workshops)

Institute for the Integration of System Dynamics

For Facilitators

Working with a whole system in mind creates healthy workplaces and individuals. You’ll learn to identify the issue, see the patterns and experientially test solutions in one sitting.

For Coaches, consultants and organizational development specialists

Often when working with your client, you seem to hit a brick wall. It’s usually because you’re only dealing with their professional system. That’s only half the story. Their family systems are their primary pattern makers. Without this information you may be flying blind. By learning to access and align their professional and personal systems, insight and breakthrough performance are achieved.

Organizations and HR

For professional development or when staff members hit a brick wall, systemic facilitation and coaching offers a deep, respectful and lasting way to shift from what is to what’s possible.

It’s personal, too.

Workshops are designed to take you beyond what is to what’s possible. What’s your single biggest issue? What’s keeping you stuck? Working through this experiential workshop format, you’ll understand why you’re stuck, what the gift is and how to use it with your own unique voice. Create lasting strength and direction.

Bespoke workshops are available.

The Magic of Purpose and Clarity DNA

Advanced 4-Day Intensive at Disney World


November 13-16, 2019
Accommodations and workshops are at the luxurious Walt Disney World Swan Resort.
Register by March 31st. Space is limited. Only 50 spots available!

This 4-Day Advanced Intensive is for anyone looking to deepen their facilitation skills in family constellations and organizational constellations.

Each attendee must have completed a workshop in family or organizational constellations or system dynamics with Judy or another recognized trainer.

Just as we inherit our physical and emotional DNA, we also inherit loyalties to decisions made about events and our reactions to them. Over time these unconscious loyalties erode purpose and clarity and we fall victim to a multi-generational systemic trance. It happens to most of us and keeps us stuck. Our ability to discern what we came here for gets lost in our unconscious loyalty to the stronger system or systemic conscience. Yet somewhere in our hearts and minds there is a wish or desire to find our purpose and clarity and to follow our true callings and desires.

We might say there is an old pattern trying to stop and a new pattern trying to emerge through you. At this immersive 4-day intensive, I’ll show you the tools and strategies to surface those unconscious loyalties, in your clients’ lives and organizations even as you surface them in your own. You’ll find what’s needed to shift you and those clients in order to stop the patterns from repeating through them or you. You will learn how to make your purpose stronger than your history allowing you to move from stuck to fulfilled in order to create profound and lasting change.

Accommodations and workshops are at the luxurious Walt Disney World Swan Resort. Pricing does not include airfare.


Throughout this immersive 4-day intensive at Walt Disney World, you’ll work hard and dig deep, learning tools, strategies, nuances and constellations that consciously grow Purpose and Clarity DNA for your clients and yourself. This no excuses interactive workshop pushes your boundaries in ways that are respectful yet bold. Then we’ll go and play, recharging and renewing for this transformative experience. You will learn different ways to facilitate representatives; use systemic language; set up and conclude constellations. We will also explore meta constellations for large forces, like holocausts, immigration, war.


Thanks to neuroscience we now know that thoughts and emotions create reality. Thanks to Ancestry.com we are able to know where we belong. Systemic work and constellations facilitate the inner shift that changes the ways we think and feel. The embodied experience creates the deep inner shift that lays down new neural pathways and new ways of thinking and feeling. Outcomes and lives change and with learning and experience we learn to do this mindfully and consciously and teach our clients to have happier more fulfilled lives.

Advanced Qualification

To attend this 4-Day Advanced Intensive at Disney, each attendee must have have attended a constellations workshop before either with Judy directly or with a recognized constellations trainer. The other workshop modules form a one year course that carries international certification.

If you’re interested in attending and haven’t attended a workshop before, there are four opportunities to go to the prerequisite workshop—and then, attend this 4-Day Intensive.
NOTE: Sign up for all four prerequisite workshops and receive $200 off your Advanced Intensive registration fee.

Relationship DNA: February 15-17 (San Diego, CA)
Emotional DNA: March 22-24 (Houston)
Organizational DNA: June 7-9 (Houston)
Relationship DNA: Sept 27-29 (Houston)
Leadership DNA (Houston)

By the end of this workshop you’ll know how to:

  • Identify the patterns that need to rest and surface the patterns that are trying to emerge through you or your client.
  • Walk your clients through and past their reasons for inaction or stuck-ness and create purpose and direction.
  • Elicit and use systemic sentences as insights and pivot points for change.
  • Set up and complete constellations with accurate and impactful sentences of resolution, with different ways to use representatives.
  • See and understand facilitation of a meta constellation like war, holocausts, immigration etc. Understand it’s impact on your clients and society.

What you’ll take away:

  • The ability to facilitate and think dimensionally and create innovative, interactive solutions for your clients and yourself.
  • A better awareness of multi-generational events and their effects on individuals and organizations
  • Knowing how to use clarity to diffuse or break hidden loyalties so you can finally access purpose and direction.
  • Tools you can use to explain the dimensional approach to exploring and resolving issues to your clients

Complete package includes:

  • Tickets to Walt Disney World (includes Fastpasses and Christmas Kitchen access)
  • Special accommodation rates at Walt Disney World Swan Resort. Room sharing welcome. No offsites please
  • Tuition and materials for professional workshop
  • CCE’s for ICF members
  • Full breakfast and coffee each day
  • One signature dinner/experience
  • Other magic not to be discovered until you are here.

Professional Series

Emotional DNA Professional Series for Certification

Become the biggest change creator your clients will ever work with

In this new experiential 4-part training series, I’ll teach you the tools and strategies to go deeper, faster with your clients to uncover obstacles and illuminate possibilities. By doing your own work and creating change from within, you’ll learn how to create profound and lasting change in the lives and businesses of your clients–in a way that’s fulfilling and inspiring.

Emotional DNA is your greatest gift.

Just as our physical DNA is inherited, our emotional genetics also get passed down from generation to generation. Success, failure, love and money can be linked back to our ancestral family system. And if a limiting pattern lives in that family system, it can show up in your personal and business life. Does that mean we’re doomed to repeat the past? No, the past only lives in you as a repetitive pattern until you see it, know what you want, choose something different and allow yourself to go all the way with your choice. Emotional DNA can be rewired. I’ll show you how to identify limiting patterns and establish new patterns of success and fulfillment for your clients so you can guide them to lasting transformation.

Find more meaning, depth and satisfaction in your work.

When you work in the field of human potential, transforming leaders into visionary rock stars feels extraordinary. Because when most people feel stuck, they think they’re a limited edition, incapable of becoming big. It’s our job to show clients the mindful path to unlimited self-worth. And whenever you help someone identify a behavior pattern that lives in their family system–good or bad–it’s transformative. You can literally see profound shift take root as they realize how this multigenerational pattern has affected their own life and use it in order to ignite a new pattern. To watch the visceral, human reaction as your client becomes unstuck, is pure magic.

New format for deeper learning, faster breakthroughs and lasting change.

My new Emotional DNA Professional Series for certification is a streamlined, 4-part workshop format designed to help you access a more complete picture of your client with a fuller understanding of the whole person. You’ll learn to quickly discern behavior patterns, see opportunities and establish direction so you can and begin the work of opening them up to the next level with steps that are believable and achievable. With this level of training, you’ll be able to guide your clients to life-shifting breakthroughs and lasting change like no other in your field.

1-Year Coaching Certification

Workshops may be taken in any order, but you must complete the full series to earn 120 CCE credits through the International Coach Federation (ICF) (30 per module).

Workshop 1
Emotional DNA

Workshop 2
Organizational DNA

Workshop 3
Relationship DNA

Workshop 4
Leadership DNA

Advanced Workshops

Advanced DNA Workshops


In these new immersive intensives, I’ll teach you the tools and strategies to go even deeper with your clients to uncover patterns and explore new possibilities. By doing your own work and creating change from within, you’ll learn how to create profound and lasting change in the lives and businesses of your clients–in a way that’s fulfilling and inspiring.

Success DNA

Just as we inherit our physical and Emotional DNA, our success patterns are handed down from generation to generation. Embracing success puts us onto a path of deep self-discovery where we lean into the responsibility of growing the biggest possible version of ourselves. Throughout this immersive intensive, you’ll work hard and dig deep, learning the tools, strategies and constellations to consciously develop your own Success DNA.

Join me and you will discover:

  • A new understanding of how events from generations past create patterns that affect your success in all areas of your life.
  • Knowing how you can break negative patterns or amplify positive ones so you pass on the Success DNA of being bigger to the next generation.
  • The ability to change and choose bigger than your current reality, see new possibilities, experience new emotions, and achieve new outcomes making Success DNA a habit.

Money DNA

You don't just inherit your physical DNA- you also inherit your Emotional DNA and with it your Money DNA . It's encoded into the systemic sentences, actions, thoughts, and feelings and determines how much you will or won't or can or can't make.

Join me and you will discover:

  • The natural orders in human systems and how they affect Money DNA The principles that are entry and exit points for identifying and resolving issues with money
  • 7 levels of Money DNA
  • Money DNA influencers
  • Your personal and business relationships with money
  • The hidden financial loyalties and systemic themes in families and organizations
  • Money conscience
  • The patterns that want to rest
  • How to grow a healthy happy lens for Money DNA


To attend the Advanced Workshops, each attendee must have have attended a constellations workshop before either with Judy directly or with a recognized constellations trainer. Members of the International Coach Federation (ICF) can receive credits for these workshops.

Advanced Workshop 1
Success DNA

Advanced Workshop 2
Money DNA

Master Facilitator Workshops

For Organizational Dynamics + Family Dynamics

How do you become a good systemic facilitator? This skill is honed over time. By working with an experienced master facilitator, you’ll learn to ‘walk with’ the system while also holding space for what wants to emerge, respectfully and deeply.

In my masterclasses, you’ll deepen your understanding of how to identify, explore and resolve limiting patterns with real-life clients. If you’ve completed previous trainings in Family Dynamics or Organizational Dynamics, you’re eligible to participate as a facilitator. Still working through trainings? Come as an observer and learn from real-life work.

Master classes are currently offered in Houston the afternoon before 3-day workshops.

Who can facilitate

If you’ve completed either the Family Dynamics or Organizational trainings, you’re eligible to participate as a facilitator. Space is limited to 6 facilitators per master class, fee is $165.

Who should observe

Still working through trainings? If you haven’t yet completed a full training, attend the master class and observe to gain deeper insight into the facilitation process. Observer numbers are unlimited, fee to attend and observe is $85.

All workshops are open to the public, and for professionals including:

  • Coaches
  • Consultants
  • Executives
  • Organizational Leaders
  • Facilitators
  • Therapists
  • Executives
  • HR Professionals

Payment policy

Breaking Big is an investment in yourself, your family, your organization, your future. In order to guarantee your place in any workshop, payment is due in full and there are no refunds.