We live and work—for the most part, unconsciously—within multiple relationship systems. Our family, our culture, our country, career, school, religion, organizations we join, all are systems with their own unique rules, history, expectations, needs, loyalties and different experiences of belonging. When personal issues come up and we experience uncomfortable symptoms such as anxiety, money problems, difficulty relating, illnesses, depression, whatever, these are powerful indicators there is an imbalance or exclusion in a system (or systems) we are part of that wants to resolve through us.